Did you know – Traditional Aboriginal beliefs have viewed women as autonomous, with key roles as givers and caretakers of life.-
Aboriginal Women Leaders ….three inspiring Chiefs talk about leadership, They each waited patiently for the moderator’s questions and answered in turn, when asked. Their answers were smart, thoughtful, and carefully considered.
When asked what qualities make for a good leader, one of them replied, “good listening.” All three then continued to demonstrate exactly how that is done, listening attentively to the others’ responses before building and expanding upon them in turn. It was truly a dialogue – that is to say, ideas were exchanged, not hammered or yelled or performed.
That Aboriginal women are leading their communities with increasing frequency may not come as a surprise. Traditional Aboriginal beliefs have viewed women as autonomous, with key roles as givers and caretakers of life. Women frequently had functions within spiritual ceremonies and within Aboriginal governments.
…. A few key reflections made by these leaders when they were asked to think about their own leadership styles.
From their unique perspectives as Aboriginal women leaders, they offered several valuable pieces of advice that are, universally applicable and universally important. If followed, these suggestions might help any person become a leader in her or his own way.
- Speak out against stereotypes. If you hear them or see them, stop them.
- Learn your history. It will help you lead today if you know what happened yesterday.
- Get support and inspiration from those who surround you. These women spoke of being inspired by members of their staff or members of their family. Inspiration doesn’t have to come from somewhere lofty and above you.
- If you have something to say, write it down, wait 24 hrs, and read it again before you say it. (This just seems like good, sensible advice for all, leaders or no.)
- Seek balance. Be healthy, consult with elders and mentors, and give thought to your place in the world.
- Build relationships.
- Be diplomatic.
- Be transparent.
- And perhaps most importantly: communication is key. Be a good listener and listen for the voice that may not be there.
……….. Aboriginal communities, led by fierce women have a great deal to teach us on any number of topics.
We just need to do as Chief Donna Big Canoe suggested……….. learn to listen.
Affirmation: I am a good listener. I am present in communication.
Resource (complete article): https://www.canadianwomen.org/blog/learning-from-canadas-aboriginal-women-leaders/
